Is your wife or husband a soul mate

By: Mochamad Ismail
According to Wikipedia, Soulmate is someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity , love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join.

What about our wife or husband? The answer is from the deep inside of our heart. The experiences as long as living together in facing problem, sharing what we feel and think, work together to achieve aspiration, and everything happen in life. More over if we have children. Our tasks are getting complicated till they get married.

But how about love and happiness if life is just facing problem to problem.

For me, love and happiness is the soul of life, the soul of facing problems. If husband and wife are always together in everything, love and happiness is its inside. No matter how big the problems, love and hapiness will follow.

Is a soul mate a fate? For me, yes it is. It's from God. We can not avoid what God has given to us. God khows what we don't know. So let's face life with faith and believe in God.