Attracking love into our life

By: Mochamad Ismail
Can do we live without love? The answer is off course “can” but there must be something wrong there. If I ask you another question. Can a tree live without water? The answer is “can”. But have you ever seen a dried tree, without leaves, live but no leaves only a few leaves on the sticks.

I think the example above is just the same with human who live without love.

Now, exactly there are some people could not know how to attract love into their life. Sometimes, very difficult for them to express their feeling, their character, their desire to people.

I think the basic problem is not how to express but how open your mind to people. We don’t have to express what we feel. Just do what we think good, what we think useful to others. Don’t be a closed person. I think it’s the law of relationship in society. The law of having love. The more we open, the more they will close to you. Off course the open thinking what I mean is not talking something bad. Not make a bad gossip about someone. People don’t like that, right? So, be open personality is the good way.

Another good way is having positive outlook. Sometimes is not easy to be a person like this. Always have a positive thinking to anybody. But as long as I know from “expert” in some book or from magazine it’s the best way in relationship. Not just in social relationship but also in business relationship that a positive thinking has a power. A power to do everything without feeling afraid, without feeling doubtful. And the result is our capability will better and maximum.

Last but not least. Before we get, we give first. From our religion say the same. Give first, we’ll get more. I think it’s a promise from God. And people also aware it. If somebody give something you like, you‘ll think you’ll give back even more. In my religion, if you give one, you’ll get ten times. How lucky, isn’t it?

I hope what I write above could be useful especially for me. What I write doesn’t mean I’m better in relationship it’s just what I feel and from some friends told me.

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By Mochamad Ismail
Love. Do we really need love? What happen when somebody never been loved? Is he/she getting crazy? I don't know the answer. But we can guess with a fact in life if seeing people like that "no love". If we see in a movie, usually people never been loved are crazy and sick. No mercy, don't have sympathy to help, care, or to share to other about life and togetherness.

Let's say if we educate children with no love, when they grow up they will live in lonely, feel hardness of heart, never care and share. They think life is themself.

Hitler, could be an example of somebody with no love in life. When a woman and the only love him he will do anything to get it (based on the story).

I love my wife, my children, my parents , my family... I love people, kindly people. Can I love bad people like corruptor, thief, drunker, or gambler? I'm not sure I can. It's naturally, right? So we just love good people, as good as our family we know each other. What about if our family do something bad and in prisoned. Do you still love them?

The true love come from the deep inside of our heart. When my children do something bad off course I still love him and will do anything to help him to avoid from bad things. I will hug him with love to aware him that life is too precious to fullfil with bad behaviour.

So, love depends on with whom we related. It's from the most people. I'm sure there are people never care about relationship. What they think is the honesty, the truth, the law, the regulation... He/she can love everybody from any nations and any level of society. Can get along with everybody over the world no matter the behaviour. He/she just give loves!

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